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The "Let Them Theory" Will Change Your Life | The quickest way to invite more peace into your life is to just “let them”. In this episode 👉 “The “Let Them Theory”: A Life-Changing Mindset Hack That... | By Mel Robbins | The Let Them Theory. It's so obvious and once you learn it, you are going to use it so many times a day, you will, it's just going to blow your mind because the let them theory is going to allow you to detach yourself from the things that cause a lot of struggle and angst and emotion to come up when you get controlling. The let them theory also allows you to let go of the rains and give space for other people to take responsibility ability, let them do it, and finally, what you're going to learn is that the let them theory, it is incredible because when you let somebody just be who they actually are and you stop trying to make them something else, you realize in so many friendships and so many relationships, you actually are in love with their potential. You're not in a relationship with who the person really is and you've been so busy controlling and trying to change them that you don't even recognize that you're a relationship with their potential and when you let somebody be who they actually are, wow, it allows you to understand who you're actually dealing with. I don't think any of us are aware of just how much energy and effort and time we waste on **** that we're trying to control and the let them theory is a lever that you can pull so you can create more peace and ease and love and all of it in your life so you can float with the current of things instead of battling it so far. You trick yourself into thinking that you're going to be in control if you can control other people. It doesn't work that because you can't control other people. You can manipulate them, you can guilt them, you can shame them, you can compliment them, you can love them, but you can't control them, okay? You can just try to. The person that you can control is yourself. And every time you use the let them theory, you immediately reverse the focus of that control on everybody else. And you turn it back on yourself. A lot of times the controlling or the obsessing is triggered by the way you think things should be or the way that you're used to things being and you're uncomfortable with the uncertainty which is why you jump in and you do this and so that's where the let them theory comes in because you can use the let them theory for just about anything when you feel yourself trying to control a situation or another human being. I want you to you the let them theory. I want you to literally say to yourself, my mom and dad don't want to come to Thanksgiving, let them. My sister-in-law doesn't want to go to so and so's baby shower, let her. My son or daughter doesn't want to go to medical school, let them. My husband doesn't want to train for this triathlon that I've signed up for, let them. My roommates don't want to do dry January with me, let them. Stop trying to force other people to do what you want them to do. And so much more peace will come into your life.
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